“I went to the pride festival in Seoul, Korea and found all this Ace representation and education. I wanted to share with the community so people can see what wonderful inclusion and support within the queer community there is here.”
“I was wondering if panromantic or homoromantic ace’s have any tips for coming out to parents. I think they’ll accept me but will struggle to understand which is what I “worry” about. I am panro but never considered coming out because I have never felt the need to, but I think I may be getting into a relationship and I don’t want to have to hide them from my parents. Other people I couldn’t care less about coming out to, a few people already know through association to us both and are obviously very supportive.
I’ve considered messaging my parents with info and basically saying “it me” or printing info out. I just think I’ll struggle to say it to them without them knowing what it is first.
Thanks in advance!”
“There are 2 Jewish asexual Facebook groups for English speaking people.
1.General Jewish Ace support Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1797400593922821/
2. Jewish Ace dating group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1976829845878809/
Also there is a Jewish Facebook page called Jewish Asexuality”
“I’m not sure if you do things like this or I’m not sure who does I am youngest candidate for my state of New Jersey but as well I’m trying to be the first ace in general assembly. You don’t need to help but I am trying to find as many groups that help me out”
CONTENT WARNING: sexual violence: Hello! I work at a rape crisis center and am wondering if anyone has any information on Ace survivors ( either stats, credible websites, etc.) I too am ace, but have no idea where to start with this. Thanks so much!
“Hello! I would just like to let y’all know that you have helped me feel better about myself. I’ve only found this page a week ago but it’s already made me feel like I’m not alone. Thank you so much for that. ”
“I just wanted to thank everyone who expresses acceptance and understanding for the asexual community.
It is not an easy road to tread. It’s not as easy as just saying “I’m not interested.”
Imagine going on four years in a relationship with someone you love dearly. You enjoy everything about them, except sex. Maybe you don’t even like kissing. But you’re great at pretending that you do like it, and each day is a struggle to keep pretending because at this point, if you be yourself… you will lose your best friend and partner forever.
When you hit puberty with all your friends, you heard them tell stories about being afraid to tell their parents about their true sexual Identity, and you listened to their tales of forbidden love with wide eyes. But you had no stories… because you never felt that way towards anyone. Ever. And it never really occurred to you before. And suddenly, the world seems like a very lonely place.
I fought with myself for my entire adolescent life about how I should be a sexual person, because I knew I needed that closeness that can only come from a romantic relationship. Now, at 26, I deal with sex because I love my partner, and I know it is a need of theirs.
But I once felt so broken that I almost made a decision that I couldn’t take back. I felt so alone.
When I found out about Facebook pages and websites dedicated to asexuality, for the first time in my life, I felt like I don’t have to go through this alone.
So, again… thank you.”
“I just wanted to thank you guys because you gave me the courage to come out to my boyfriend.
I thought he would freak out, but he was okay with it and accepted it. He said that “Of course an Ace is still valid, that’s how they feel. If I don’t want to eat kimchi (he’s Korean) for breakfast, it’s still a valid opinion. If a person is ace and doesn’t want sex they are valid. They are valid if they have sex to please their partners. All aces are valid. Everyone is valid.”
Everyone is VALID. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise, and if someone can’t accept you, there’s still someone out there who will. We all need to empower each other.
YOU are VALID.
His kimchi comparison was strange but that’s how he was able to understand it, so whatever works???”
“Apparently my little brother told my mom he was asexual. She thought that was made up, and someone told her that just means he’s gay. I used your page to explain it to her, and now she thinks she may be asexual too.”
“Hi, given the number of folks we’ve had posting lately about wanting/needing therapy, I’d like you to consider sharing this
It’s a website for religious and non religious therapists to register as being primarily or solely evidence based treatment.
I was very lucky with it in Atlanta and found a therapist who was unfamiliar with but understood the concept of Aces, as well as being pro LGBTQIA, and pro-polyamory.
As such I was able to work through stress and relationship issues with her, and she never tried to change or “fix” me.
Anyway, Secular Therapy matches you with several therapists, who you can then email anonymously through the website, if you find someone you think you will be comfortable with, then you have the option of sharing actual name/email address/phone number to schedule an appointment”