From the inbox #776

“i’ve noticed that a lot of other aces also write smut, and particularly in regards to sex-averse aces, why do you enjoy writing smut, and what got you into it?”

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From the inbox #735

“I am pretty much a closet asexual right now. I have shared with a few people who I thought would understand asexual and they did and didn’t really question me. Well tonight I have my first coming out to someone. It’s a girl that was interested in me and mentioned something about being horny and a sexual girl. I figured I really should go ahead and let her know that I am asexual. Well after more than an hour she might finally accept that I am sure about myself. Though I doubt she believes it herself. This is still after probing questions of “have you had sex? If so give me details. So you masterbate for pleasure.” Just assumed I masterbate, didn’t even ask. And whatever else. The struggles of being asexual are very real. Please tell me this is not an every time occurrence…”

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From the inbox #731

“I have a quistion
For the asexual people in relationships
Does youre partner ever cheated on you
Or does cheating happend a lot
Becauce of youre asexuality?

I just wanna know
Becaus i am an asexual
25 old and stil never had relationship

Sorry for bad english
(I am from holland)”

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From the inbox #665

“When I check comments, people often refer to pans as poly people….but why?
Are most pans poly? I’m quite lost, I thought being pansexual/panromantic only meant you’re attracted to every genders…..Not to every people in the world”

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From the inbox #653

“I found out recently that the red on the pride flag stands for sexuality (as each colour represents a different part of the human experience). Do you think this a way of devaluing Asexual people”

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From the inbox #554

“A couple weeks back a mate and I went to the Big Gay Out, and did a promotion where you could get 144 condoms for $5. Signed the prescription, only just bothered to get ’em today.
I’m ace, with no plans of having sex in the near future, same with my mate. I just like the whole appeal of condoms. I guess. Not entirely sure. Anyways.
My question is, what can you do with 140-odd condoms? So far we’ve thought of blowing them up into balloon things, putting spaghetti/baked beans in ’em, and using the packets for an article of clothing to promote safe sex.”

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From the inbox #527

“Hey there, my question is a bit specific and I don’t know if someone will be able to answer, but it would really help me to find… anyone in the same situation.

Can Aspies ( people with Asperger ( autism ) ) not identify sexual attraction and arousal instead of not feeling it? In this case, is the person on the asexual spectrum, or is it just another self-understanding difficulty?”

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From the inbox #518

“If anyone in the group would be willing to share, I would like to ask for some personal experiences from anyone who is polyamorous. I’m starting to think I may fall under this category, but just resorting to Google searches isn’t enough. How did you come to realize you were polyamorous and how do you deal with this? What are your relationships like? How can I tell if I am polyamorous or not?”

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