From the inbox #88

“Hello, I would like to know if anyone else has the same feeling. I do not want sex, I never really have but saw it as what you do in a relationship. If I never had sex again it wouldn’t bother me. I do crave intimacy though.

Now, my problem is that I actually wonder whether it’s low self-esteem that makes me not want to have sex. I’m in my mid-twenties and really wish I had this figured out.

I am incredibly anxious about being that close with someone. I hate myself and my appearance. It is deeply embarrassing and awkward to imagine myself in a sexual situation. Maybe if I loved myself and the way I looked, I would want to have sex with people.

Does anyone else think this? Any advice?”

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