From the inbox #80

“Recently (the past year) I have had no interested in anything sexual with anyone. I occasionally think about it, however it doesn’t last long, and the idea and the act usually makes me really uncomfortable, and seems like an uninteresting chore more than anything. I have done things with people before out of curiosity and the need to please myself, it is more enjoyable, but still not that appealing or great, when I have an emotional bond/connection with the person. I find myself being attracted to people, I can say whether a male/female is attractive to me, but they are never attractive enough to make me desire anything sexual. I’m having a hard time figuring out what to label myself as?”

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