From the inbox #735

“I am pretty much a closet asexual right now. I have shared with a few people who I thought would understand asexual and they did and didn’t really question me. Well tonight I have my first coming out to someone. It’s a girl that was interested in me and mentioned something about being horny and a sexual girl. I figured I really should go ahead and let her know that I am asexual. Well after more than an hour she might finally accept that I am sure about myself. Though I doubt she believes it herself. This is still after probing questions of “have you had sex? If so give me details. So you masterbate for pleasure.” Just assumed I masterbate, didn’t even ask. And whatever else. The struggles of being asexual are very real. Please tell me this is not an every time occurrence…”

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