From the inbox #692

“I met a guy that was cool. I could see him as a friend. it was a great conversation I enjoy talking to him. But I think he got the wrong message I just like having conversations but I think he thought I was flirting. Also I make eye contact with people because I want to show them that I’m listening and focus on what they’re saying but I think guys take it as a sexual thing. A friend of mine recently told me that he is sexually attracted to me and I can’t wrap my head around it I’m not able to understand what that actually means like almost like describing colors to a color-blind person…. I’ve been trying to read articles about what is sexual attraction because I didn’t feel any of that but apparently he did. I feel confused and lost because I want to have good friends but I feel uncomfortable and they’re attracted to me when I don’t want to be having sex.”

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