From the inbox #67

“I am wondering if there are other sex-averse pan-or-homoromantic asexuals out there, in long-term (1 yrs+) relationships with allosexuals… do they mind standing up? How do they cope? My partner wants to touch me a lot (in sensual ways, I guess) but it’s getting harder and harder for me not to cringe, especially if I am not expecting it. And this really, really hurts her.. We are coping I guess, but I’d feel so good having another ace person in my position to talk to about this, and I’m not finding help over at Aven.”

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