From the inbox #60

“Okay so I think I am asexual. I realised recently that I have ALWAYS found sex awkward and more just to please the other party than myself. I usually try to find a way to avoid having sex at all costs and would rather just cuddle. This would not be a problem for me if I were single or with someone who understood. The thing is I am with someone and have been for almost a year. He loves sex and always tries to have it whenever possible while I try and put it off. Thing is, he thinks I really like it too.
I don’t think he could be in a sex free relationship but I live him and I know he loves me.
What the hell should I do?? I wouldn’t expect him to “just get over it” because it is as much about him being comfortable as me. I am so scared of talking to him about it and need some opinions <3

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