From the inbox #491

“So, i need advice. I’m Demisexual and fine with sex so long as it’s gentle and loving, my partner is very sexual and prefers forceful “call me your whore” sex. My partner fully supports my sexuality and tries to understand it but it feels like anything sexual we do is purely for them now, because i’m insecure and don’t want to disappoint. how do i explain things without making my partner feel like a horrible person?”

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