From the inbox #485

“I ended up getting a boyfriend back in 2013 to see if sexual feelings would develop over time, and he is very sexual, and seems to take my asexuality as a challenge. After some badgering about it, I told him that while I’d have sex (after we’re married) with him so he’d be happy, it’s not something I’ve ever been interested in or like to talk about. He told me I’d have to get used to it, continues to try to grope me (he once attempted it in public, but learned quickly this was a bad idea since I grabbed his fingers HARD), and often sexts me, asking if ‘that sounds like fun? 

He’s actually making me sex-repulsed (at least in regards to him) because of this, but I don’t think he realizes.”

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