From the inbox #471

“So this has happened a lot, I’ve actually lost count of how many times it’s happened in all. My apologies in advance if this has been asked before, by the way.
I’ll be talking to a friend, and they’ll find out I’m asexual. Somehow, this makes them think it’s magically okay to ask me if I wank. I don’t find it to be any of their business, but if I refuse to answer, they make assumptions anyway that I do, which is, again, not their business. Is there anything specifically I can say to them or do to get them to drop the topic without answering directly or indirectly?”

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