From the inbox #46

“Hi.
Um, so I identify as an asexual homoromantic (female), and I’ve been very sure of my orientation for years.
But recently I’ve started to have feelings for a guy that are more than platonic and I’m really confused about it. It’s the first time I’ve ever felt romantic feelings for someone who identifies as a male and I don’t know what this means for my orientation or whether or not telling him would be a good idea (he knows I’m ace and homo). This is all really confusing for me and I was wondering if you had any advice or help you could give me because it’s starting to upset me that I don’t know.”

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