From the inbox #417

“I’m kind of curious if anybody has similar experiences to mine. My partner and I are both ace with neither being distinctly sex positive. I myself am sex negative while my partner doesn’t really know. Both of us are interested in certain kinky play in strictly non sexual contexts. As an example I enjoy being pinned down, it’s not arousing but I find the physical intimacy pleasurable and it’s something I only desire from people I am close to and have romantic feelings for. We’re calling them sensual kinks, but I’m just wondering if anybody else experiences them.”

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