From the inbox #406

“So I’m very close with a guy and happily enough it’s just cuddling which I’m very content with I would like to date him but he has a girlfriend who is aware that it’s nothing sexual I’m just cuddly and that he does care but I still find myself wanting to be reassured that I’m pretty and I’m not sure why I know it’s generally wrong to want someone’s boy friend to do that but I’ve been close friends for almost a year and sometimes I feel that by not being a sexual person I could lose his affection and care, I was wondering if there’s any strategies to reassure yourself that it’s not the case of ways to tell if it is ?”

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