From the inbox #395

“So, for a while now I have been thinking my boyfriend is asexual or within that umbrella. He doesn’t care about labels he just goes by the same thing as me “I’m me.” Well I guess my question is, I sometimes get frustrated from not having sex. We used to at the beginning of the relationship and now we only do very rarely (I think because he knows how hard it is on me). He feels bad because I get upset but I’m never upset at him. If I need sex bad enough he’s open to me finding it somewhere else (we are polyamourous). The other night he said he wished he could fix it and be able to want sex with me more. He’s not broken and it hurts me that he thinks he is. I don’t know how to comfort him and let him know I’m not upset with him for who he is.”