From the inbox #330

“What is it called if you’re ace and sex doesn’t repulse you, but you find it painful? (For me it is almost always painful or at least very uncomfortable, no matter if it’s vaginal, anal, or oral sex). I would love to give a partner sex, but don’t think I can because the experience is so uncomfortable for me. At the same time, I don’t mind hearing about it or talking about it or even watching it in porn. However, I do find it very tedious and boring and don’t get the appeal. Would you consider me sex repulsed? The experience of sex is actively painful/uncomfortable to me, but mentally I am neutral about it.”

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