From the inbox #323

“I used to be very sexual in middle and high school. Masturbated, had sex, kissed, etc. Every day I thought about sex. Around college my sex drive dropped off. It seems that once I get a new relationship I get a sex drive again for maybe 6 months tops, then it plummets to zero again. No sex drive or sexual attraction after that. Is there a word for sex drive with a new relationship, but nothing after that? Just gray A? I am 28 now and feel asexual, but I know if I broke it off with my partner and got a new one my urge to please sexually would come back.”

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