From the inbox #311

“I have a question I’d like to ask, to Ace but not Aro guys on the page.
I’m an asexual woman and therefore don’t know how it works for guys.
To make this clear before it gets akward, I’m a writer and I have a male 18 years old caracter who is dating a really cute girl.
My question is: how does it work for you guys?
Like, I know sexual guys can have and are likely to have boners when cuddling with their loved ones. Is it the same for ace guys? Is it harder (no pun intented) to get a boner since there is no sexual attraction? Or is it a thing the body does and you got no control over it?
Thank you for your help 🙂

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