From the inbox #285

“Hi! I’m a bisexual woman dating an asexual guy. He’s not sex repulsed but totally apathetic about it. When we first got together I told him (and believed myself) that I would be totally okay with intimacy other than sex because him having sex with me solely for my benefit felt sort of coercive. Now that we’re further in, the lack of intimacy is kind of bothering me and I’m thinking about bringing up the idea of a compromise (ex sex once a month or something), but I’m not sure how to bring it up and I feel bad even wanting to, like I’m breaking a promise. I’m not sure how to proceed.”

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