CW: Sexually explicit
“I’ve been with my GF for 8 months. When we met I knew she was Ace but she was happy to give me a hand job or chat me through a jerk off but as of late she hadn’t been interested at all. She has told me she still masturbates and it is just a thing that happens for her.
I totally respect her lack of interest/desire and such, and have told her so. I’ve told her I’m struggling with the lack of intimacy, she knew going in that I am a sexual being.
What do I do? I don’t know if I can cope without the intimate connection we shared earlier in our relationship. To me its not just sex, its a connection I share with a partner and I’m really struggling.