From the inbox #274

“Hello! I’m an 18 year old girl who identifies as a hetero romantic asexual. I’m also what I like to call genital repulsed. I don’t mind taking about sex or anything but private parts disturb me so much! Anyway I have a boyfriend who isn’t asexual. Honestly he’s the exact opposite. I’ve told him multiple times that if he wants someone else to fulfill his sexual desires, then he can have a “hall pass.” He refused my offer, but lately he’s been passive aggressive about the topic. Subtly hinting that I can’t please with him with cuddles and the occasional kisses. I honestly don’t know what to do. I also don’t want what I feel like to be a small setback, to ruin my relationship. I really need advice.”

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