From the inbox #182

The situation is the following: I received messages from someone who thinks her husband is asexual. She’s looking into it, because he’s ashamed to. He doesn’t want to have sex a lot, but feels like he should, because that’s what “men ought to” do. He wants to “fix” it. She believes that he’s asexual and accepts that as something normal.
What to do? What would you do, if you were her? What would you like your partner to do, if you were him? Any helpful suggestions?

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