From the inbox #142

TW: Abuse

“Sometime I think that my aversion to sex or any sexual act is a result of my past in which I was sexually abused by a guy I was dating. But then when I think about it I have never been one to initiate sex. I enjoy sex with my current boyfriend but I am also happy with our relationship without sex. I recently found this page and I relate to a lot of the posts here. My boyfriend doesn’t really understand why I call myself asexual. What ways have you found that are helpful to explain? Thanks”

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