From the inbox #1371

“I recently have figured out I am ace, due to a long complicated history with sex.
i found that over the years, I would only have sex if i was intoxicated. I never realized it, until i really thought about it, and realized for well over 2 decades the only times I was ever really “comfortable” and enjoyed sex, was when I was drunk. Once I stopped drinking and starting examining my past, this was the conclusion I came to.
does anyone else feel this way? am I completely abnormal? insight is appreciated. as long as it is kind. thank you.”

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