From the inbox #136

“I’m at a lost at what to do. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years and everything is great until sex comes up. We are both virgins and I constantly feel like I should ‘give it up’ even though that’s ridiculous. He told me himself I shouldn’t have to do anything I’m not ready for. But I feel like there is this tension and I don’t know what to do. He always feels like he’s in wrong because of his sexual needs. I just don’t know what do to make everything better.”

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