From the inbox #131

“I’m ace, and I don’t tend to have sex (I have before for whatever reasons) but I don’t like having sex very much, but I love intimate and platonic relationships, but I always feel bad because it’s always with allosexuals who desire sex and I feel I’m withholding something from them, but I got over that, it’s just recently I had someone in a relationship “cheat” on me and had sex with someone else, but i never really had sex with them, is it still considered cheating? Am I just being selfish for still feeling so hurt even though we never did it? Or what are your opinions on it?”

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