From the inbox #1284

“So I’m grey-ace and bi-romantic. I’ve been sexually attracted to a member of a kpop group since I first laid eyes on them nearly 3 years ago. At the very beginning of this year I started dating and fell in love with a girl I have known for nearly 2 years now. I feel bad that I don’t feel sexually attracted to her but I really do love her to bits. Today I admitted this to her and the following conversation happened (the one in the following image). It made me so happy yet so confused, my brain was like “She doesn’t want sex from me. Does that mean this is temporary for her?” since society has coded us to believe all healthy romantic relationships need sex in order to be seen as functional. I wish I was taught at a younger about asexuality and how relationships don’t need sex to be happy.”

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