From the inbox #1269

“I’ve considered myself ace for a long while now, and never really doubted that. Then I met my fiancé, and had a lot of conflicting internal thoughts and feelings –– am I sexually attracted to him, why am I feeling these things for the first time. I thought maybe I was demi after that, but then when we were able to spend more time together ( we’re long distance ) I realized I am still very much ace, and don’t actually enjoy the act of sex on myself, but I enjoy giving to him. I think that’s something that’s totally normally, and something I’m not sure a lot of people realize is. Just because you partake in sexual acts, either giving or receiving, doesn’t take away your ace-ness. It took me awhile to understand that, but I’ve finally come ’round to my correct way of thinking with this.”

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