“Recently within the past year or so I’ve figured out that I’m panromantic demisexual. I’ve had an easier time coming to terms that I’m panromantic vs me being demisexual. Some days I have a difficult time feeling that my sexuality is valid because of how invisible pans are and how much discourse there is for aces while other days I’m rather confident in feeling valid. Feeling invalid takes over more times than I’d like and I’m not even sure what to do about it. I really don’t have any friends that identify with what I do to help so it just makes the feeling of invalidity a bit worse. There’s also not too many people (celebrity wise) that I can look up to that’s pan aside from Deadpool and Brenden Urie.
Does anyone have any advice as to what I can do to feel valid?”
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