From the inbox #1220

“So I’ve been struggling with my sexuality lately bc I’m demi and I have a high sex drive, and I’ve noticed that when I’m masturbating I’ll find myself thinking about aesthetically pleasing people that I feel no sexual attraction to. It just confuses me bc I have absolutely no desire to have sex with them but I daydream about them (not in a sexual way, more like just hanging out with them and stuff) while masturbating and it’s like is this sexual attraction or am I just letting my mind wander and subconsciously associating my thoughts with sex? Idk maybe I’m just thinking too much or overanalysing myself, but I figured it wouldn’t hurt to ask if anyone else was thinking this way or if someone else knew what I’m doing bc I have no idea what’s going on with me”

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