“So uh.. I’m just wondering if anyone else actually hates being ace? Like I accept my sexuality but I also really hate it because of how much insecurity it brings. I’m a sex repulsed ace but I also really love being in a relationship, I turned down someone I really liked because he was very sexual and he said he accepted and understood my asexuality but everyone else said that he would definitely cheat on me if I never slept with him.
My friend’s have even used it when I get introduced and I’m just like “What does that have to do with who I am as a person? Why does this stranger need to know that I don’t want to sleep with someone?” Why have you decided that that is my defining trait?”
Its just so hard and I really hate being ace more often than not. It’s something I can’t change… but I really wish I could”