From the inbox #1209

“So I’m questioning if i’m Aromantic. I don’t know if I want a relationship or the idea of a relationship or what? I’m Greysexual just for reference. I see people in relationships and I’m happy for them and I want to feel that love but whenever I think of myself in a relationship, even someone I do find physical attractive the alarm bells in my bed start ringing.
I’m not sure if this is related but when I see someone I am physically or on the very rare occasions sexual attracted to someone I feel very uncomfortable. Anxious. Like I’m going throw up. In very rare occasions have to leave the room. It happens once a year maybe but it’s noticeable. Does anyone else have this?”

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