From the inbox #1199

“So I have a boyfriend which I’ve been with for two months now, but we’ve been friends forever and even dated during high school.
Whenever he wants to have sex, I politely decline most of the time. Out of no where he suddenly asks me “do you not find me attractive? Am I too fat? Does my breath stink?” And so on.
I’ve tried explaining to him about my sexuality as asexual/demisexual but I don’t feel like he understands. He LOVES sex and he finds me very sexually alluring as well as emotionally attractive.
I love him very much as well but there are times where I just don’t want to have sex mainly because I don’t feel up for it and most of the time it’s a chore.”

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