From the inbox #1124

“I am demisexual, I know it for sure but I am starting to think if I am ace but I am not sure. I have a boyfriend, we are together for 4 years now and he is my first one. I am 19 and he is 20 and we still didn’t have sex. I do feel sexual desire towards him and we did “sexual stuff” but never did the actual thing and I just don’t think I want to. I just find it like “eeh whatever, we could just do something else instead”. I thought before that I am just not ready but It didn’t go away at all and I don’t think it will cuz I don’t see anything cool about it. But as I said I feel sexual desire ale like kissing etc. in a sexual way but nothing more. He doesn’t mind not doing anything so it is good between us but I am just confused about myself.”

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