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“I made this last weekend to signify how much of my life and relationships have evolved since I figured out my Ace identity.

It’s been a difficult but very rewarding journey as I realize this is a part of who I’ve always been.

I realized I’m not broken by my conservative religious background like I and my series of therapists thought for so long. In the church, my lack of sexual attraction was righteous, but when I got married and was suddenly faced with my “wifey duty to have sex”, I was completely unprepared.

Four years later, my husband and I find polyamory suits our relationship really well, as I reside contently as a sex adverse Ace, with minimal romantic interests. A complete transformation from what feels like a former life.


Just another successfulish sex-free marriage 😉 It happens and I didn’t know it was possible and it’s wonderful 😊

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