From the inbox #1037

“I am confused about the right term/tag for my asexuality. Can you please help me with this?

I enjoy watching romantic movies & fantasize myself to be with that male actor in those romantic scenes. I experience high desire to be close to someone, to go out with and to cuddle with (usually boys), but this whole desire of mine is never directed to a particular individual in real world; Infact, I don’t like to be with (or even touched by) someone ; unless I have formed an emotional attachment to (or fully known) an individual.

But, once I have known a person or become close to that person, I want to have all those things (non-sexual romantic) with that particular person only and then, it does not matter whether the person is a girl or boy.

So, should I go with a homo-romantic or bi-romantic or demi-homoromantic or demi-biromantic asexual identity?”

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