From the inbox #1001

“I identify as panromantic asexual agender but I’m only ‘out’ to a few people. I feel like my identity is so obscure and misunderstood that I’m scared of coming out to more people. People assume I’m straight as I’m in a heterosexual partnership and I feel like maybe there’s no ‘point ‘. I want to take part in queer spaces sometimes but feel like I’m intruding and yet I feel uncomfortable being assumed straight. I don’t know what to to do and I feel like I’ve just invented this problem in my head.”

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